A few months ago, my doctor told me I had a rare condition that would slowly rob me of my ability to walk. I was terrified. So, that evening, I told my husband Tyler that I would soon become wheelchair-bound.
I saw disgust in his eyes. “Wait… so you’re going to be disabled? Emily, I didn’t sign up for this. I married a vibrant woman, not someone I’d have to… take care of. I’M NOT GOING TO BE YOUR NANNY!” In disbelief, I watched him pack his bags that very night.
The next morning, he left a note on the kitchen counter. Need some time to think. That was it. No goodbye, no apology. Nothing.
I didn’t hear from him for days. It was like he’d cut me out of his life without a second thought.
Every little thing in the house reminded me of the life I thought we’d been building together. I started to pack some of Tyler’s things away.
My sister, Audrey, visited me. “So, where is he now?”
I said, “I have no idea. I texted his brother to see if he was there, but Kevin said that he hadn’t seen or heard from him.”
“Tell me that you’re not trying to make things work with him, Emily,” Audrey said. “Because I won’t allow it.”
“I’m not. It’s just that I want to see him to end this. I want him to know how much he has hurt and disappointed me. I want him to hear it from my lips.”
“Look, whatever happens, I’ve got you. Our family has you,” she said, smiling.
Later that day, while I sat in bed, I scrolled through my phone. I saw a post that made my stomach drop. There Tyler was, tagged in a friend’s photo, smiling on the beach with some blonde woman leaning into him, both of them holding cocktails.
He looked happy. Carefree. It was as if I’d already become a distant memory to him.
I was done crying. I was done feeling bad. I was done feeling like a victim in my own life. I had no idea what was coming next, but whatever it was, I was going to face it on my terms.
Then, the unexpected happened.
A week after Tyler left, my doctor called, “Emily, I’m so sorry. We’ve made a terrible mistake!” Dr. Duncan said.
“It turns out that your test results were mixed up with another patient’s. You’re healthy. We just need to focus on your calcium levels.”
“What?” I repeated.
“You’re okay. You’re better than okay! And listen, I understand how traumatic the past two weeks have been. So, I’m going to offer you free counseling sessions until you feel okay. I can’t imagine your mental state. If you want it, I’ll do the referral and take care of everything else.”
Relief washed over me, flooding my senses. I hung up, already scheduling an appointment with Dr. Duncan to sort out my calcium issues. I felt a strange mix of freedom and clarity
My husband had shown me who he truly was, and there was no going back. I imagined him sitting on the beach, looking at the water and doing everything but care about me.
About two weeks later, life threw me yet another twist.
My grandmother passed away, leaving Audrey and me a substantial inheritance.
My gran had always been encouraging us to live our lives how we wanted. Now, with this money, I could finally break free from the life I’d been clinging to. I had the resources to build a life that was entirely my own I wasn’t just healthy. I was independent.
Without Tyler.
Then, like clockwork, Tyler came crawling back.
One evening, there was a knock on my door. I opened it to find Tyler holding a half-wilted bouquet of grocery store flowers. He forced a sheepish smile.
Instead, I rolled my eyes.
“Em,” he started. “Can we talk?”
“What would you possibly have to say to me?” I asked.
“Look, I panicked. I thought… I thought you’d be sick forever, and I didn’t know how to handle it. But I love you.”
“You mean you love me? Or you love that you heard about my grandmother’s inheritance?”
The color drained from his face.
“I don’t care about money, Emily. I just missed you.”
“Go back to the blonde on the beach,” I said.
He tried to explain himself. When he finally paused, I rolled my eyes again.
“Do you remember what you said to me that night you left? About needing a vibrant wife? Yeah… nope. That’s not me.”
I opened the door wider, motioning for him to leave.
“I’ll send over the divorce papers. I’ll send them to your office.”
Over the next few months, I poured myself into the projects I’d always dreamed of pursuing. I traveled, started painting, and made new friends. Life was going to be better now, without Tyler and his dead weight.